Psychology, made clear.
Boundaries, communication, attachment and conflict: reading on how we connect with other people.
A partner who never says sorry is often protecting against shame, not dismissing your feelings. Still, a relationship needs repair. Naming what you need and watching for changed behaviour matter more than the words.
You cannot fix your partner's anxiety, but you can make it easier to face. The most helpful support is steady and kind, without taking over, avoiding everything frightening or quietly becoming part of the anxious pattern.
Recurring fights are rarely about the dishes or the phone. They are about something deeper, such as respect, fairness or closeness, and usually follow a script that both of you can learn to change.
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