How to Stop Overthinking: A Calmer Way to Handle a Busy Mind
Overthinking feels like effort, but it rarely gets you anywhere. Here is how to tell useful thinking from the kind that only circles — and what to do instead.
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Overthinking feels like effort, but it rarely gets you anywhere. Here is how to tell useful thinking from the kind that only circles — and what to do instead.
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Why do we defend choices we know are flawed, or change our beliefs to fit what we have already done? The answer is a classic idea in psychology: cognitive dissonance.
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